The tiff between man and woman is as old as the earth. Men still cannot completely understand women even after centuries old research and studies that went on to delve deep into the psychology of the fairer sex. Men still feels women as an unresolved enigma. The mistake lies in men’s approach to women. Here are the ten common mistakes men make while judging women
1. All women are dump
Most of the men think that women are only to be appreciated for their external beauty. They are beauty without brains. This is not true. Women are as intelligent and sharp as men. If you change the way you judge a woman, you will understand the truth
2. Women are shallow
Men think that women are more interested in silly talks like make up, attires and so on. You should know that thinking about makeup and dresses doesn’t make women shallow. They are only glorifying the external beauty that god has given them. Thinking fashionable is not a crime. Never feel jealous that God has given more sense of style to women.
3. Women are over emotional
The emotional part of the brain of both the sexes is not formulated similarly. Both have different emotional needs. Don’t judge a woman by her emotional quotient. You must not ignore the fact that she has been your pillar of strength at times when you have fallen. Even though women cry a lot, deep within they are stronger than men. They can rise up to a situation, when the need comes and face it like a warrior.
4. Don’t judge a woman by her looks
Looks always deceive you. So don’t judge a woman by her looks. She may appear to be smarter than you think. As the saying goes beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Don’t make yourself be cheated by her looks.
5. Women fall for the rich and cool dudes
Most men think that women only look for rich and over the top cool dudes. When selecting a partner, women always look for the above factors too. But what they need most is a shoulder of support and a heart filled with love. Trust me; this is the prime most interest of the women all over the world. They surely won’t marry a dump and rich guy.
6. Women are gossipy drama queens
Have you ever found time in your busy schedule to listen to her? Sometimes she may be gossiping about her best friend, sometimes she may be telling about her desires. Listen to her. It is not just silly talks. All the time she has been longing to be with you, opening her heart just for you. You can reach deep into a woman’s heart by being a great listener. Not all women are gossipy drama queens.
7. Women lack humour sense when compared to their male counterparts
This is a great mistake a man makes while judging a woman. Most of the women are wittier than men. Treat her as your equal and you will win the game.
8. Women love drama in their life
She may be shouting at you, but deep inside her she needs to be calm and at peace with the surroundings. Give her the much needed time and space, you will come to know that she is your cute little angel; you have been looking out for all through her life. A little bit of drama can add spice to your life. But not all women love a life full of drama.
9. If you buy her a lots of gifts, she will be happy
True ….All of us love to be pampered with gifts. But if you give her gifts and don’t spend quality time with her, then you are on the loser’s side. What a woman really wants from a man is love and caress. Sweep her off her feet at times and make life awesome.
10. Women are not as honest as men
They say, “Frailty, thy name is woman”. It is not true. Sometimes women can be bluntly honest. They always wish to utter the truth.
Judge a woman by her character and not by her looks. Don’t be too harsh on women. They need to be loved and adored. Keep her on the pedestal of love and you will experience immense bliss.